This paper looks at the core questions of Kushner's book by the above title. It helps to understand how each of us can deal with the pain of loss and of accepting that God is not cruel, but simply follows by the laws of nature He set for the world. It concludes that if we accept that God does not arbitrarily put his hand into life, that he also does not disrespect the laws of nature or the frailty of human life. 6 pgs. Bibliography lists 1 source.